I have to share something a friend told me recently (sorry for throwing her under the bus here, but it fits today's message perfectly). She completely fumbled a simple question about quarterly targets in her team meeting - just a total foot-in-mouth moment that left her absolutely cringing.
But here's what's interesting about those awkward verbal stumbles we all make...
They might not be the career killers we think they are.
According to workplace communication analysis, these foot-in-mouth moments can actually make us more relatable and trustworthy in professional settings. There's educational content suggesting that our awkward moments create genuine connection rather than damage it.
The thing is, we're usually way more concerned about our verbal missteps than our colleagues are. Think about it - when was the last time you really dwelled on someone else's awkward comment? Probably never.
But when you're the one who said something clumsy? It feels like everyone's going to remember it forever.
Here's where this gets practical for your career.
First, embrace the humanity of it. When you stumble over your words or say something awkward, don't immediately launch into damage control mode. A simple "Well, that came out wrong" or even just acknowledging it with a laugh can actually build connection rather than break it.
Second, use it as a conversation starter. Your authentic moments - even the messy ones - give people permission to be real too. That's gold in a world of corporate personas and LinkedIn speak.
Third, remember that people are way less focused on your verbal fumbles than you think they are. Psychology shows us that we tend to overestimate how much attention our mistakes receive from others. Your colleagues are probably thinking about their own presentations, deadlines, and weekend plans - not replaying your awkward moment.
The reality is this: perfect communication is forgettable.
It's the slightly imperfect, human moments that people actually remember and connect with. And in a professional world where everyone's trying so hard to sound flawless, your authentic voice - stumbles and all - becomes a competitive advantage.
Next time you stick your foot in your mouth, try this: pause, breathe, and remember that you just gave someone else permission to be human too.
Hit reply and confess if this called you out a little (no judgment here).
Cheers,
Alex
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Disclaimer: I'm a curious researcher, not a licensed psychologist. I study these concepts because I believe understanding how our minds work can help us navigate life more effectively. This content is for educational purposes only and should not replace professional advice. Please consult qualified professionals for personal guidance. Individual results may vary, and readers should use their own judgment when applying these concepts.